Imagine a world without conflict. It sounds dreamy, right? It’s especially appealing to those of you who prefer avoid conflict. Regrettably, a world free of conflict is unrealistic this side of heaven. Everything changed the day Adam and Eve made the choice to eat of the forbidden fruit in the garden. That was the very…
What’s pulling you – what’s urgent, loud, or exciting? Or are you pulled by what’s a priority, important, and practically silent? I know you’ve witnessed this scene: a dog owner racing behind a dog attempting to keep up. Literally the dog owner is being walked by the dog! You might picture a great big dog,…
What makes knowing your Fear Monster’s name important? It’s important because your Fear Monster is cleverly working behind the scenes in ways that are holding you back personally and professionally. You’ve probably encountered your Fear Monster hundreds of times. If you reflect back on the moments when you’ve felt a sense of dread or the…
Burnout doesn’t play favorites. It is a very real possibility, and not just for those Type A folks that are predisposed to being ambitious and driven. Did you know that burnout is often a sign of unmet needs? It’s true! I recently shared on how to best meet those needs in this post. Overdrawn Burnout…
What springs to mind when you hear the word leader? For many, you imagine a boss similar to the one my husband had years ago who rarely had a positive word to say and was quite critical. My husband and I still chuckle about the fact that he never took the time to find out…
Faith – when it comes to your life, work, or even your relationships, is that your approach? As a leader, is faith your strategy? Of course, a lot depends on the situation, but if I’m honest, all too often I fall square in the force category – applying excessive effort to get ‘er done! It’s…
What bubbles up for you when you have decisions to make? Are you delighted by the opportunity to make a choice? Or does it evoke feelings of overwhelm for you? Add a little stress, and you have… Decision Overwhelm My husband and I happen to very much enjoy Los Cabos, Mexico. A few years back,…
What are your beliefs around self-care? Perhaps that’s not something you’ve considered recently, yet what you believe about self-care is influencing how you care for you. In order to survive, your basic needs must be met. However, if you want to operate at your best and flourish in a life-giving way, more than your basic…
Surprisingly, balance, in the work-life sense, is a topic of debate. Some would argue that balance is impossible, thus making the concept a myth. Others prefer to refer to it as “work-life negotiation” or “work-life alignment” with personal fulfillment. I cling to the concept of work-life balance: an intentional effort to show up and operate…
Ever felt “the rub” as a leader? It’s that uncomfortable, irritating sensation you experience in certain organizations or individuals you work alongside. It’s Not A Fun Sensation! “The rub” is that annoying sensation that is hard to put your finger on. That feeling reminds me of how I felt when I wore a particular blouse.…