Sustainability – The Key to Avoiding Dashed Dreams

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These days, we hear a lot about sustainability and living a green lifestyle. Being wasteful is frowned on while being efficient is celebrated. The driving force behind sustainability is a better future. Sustainability applies to your dreams too! It is a significant factor when it comes to pursuing your purpose, big dream, or giant goals! In order to accomplish what you have set out to do, you must do it in a way that is sustainable. When you set out on a new adventure, you don’t intend to overcommit yourself or hope that you will end up overwhelmed.  No, you … Read More

7 Myths about Perfectionism

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Perfectionism, Stuck, Success

I admit it – I am a perfectionist! Oh, I have come a long way in the last 30 years, but every now and then that perfectionistic leaning rears its ugly head once again! Take this past weekend for example. I created some nifty “love” magnets as favors for my daughter-in-law-to-be’s shower only to discover after the shower that one of the designs had a typo. Pierce my soul! Thank heavens there were three other mistake free designs! The perfectionistic rascal in my head began to chatter: “How could you do that? You should have noticed that typo while you … Read More

5 Ways to Tame the Green Eyed Monster in You

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After cracking a contact lens, I was forced to wear my glasses for nearly a week. If I was a hermit, this would not have been a problem, but I am not a hermit! You see, I don’t really love my glasses! So while I was in the process of getting new contacts, it made sense to also get a new pair of glasses that were public-worthy. About a week later, I picked up my fashionable new spectacles. As I walked to my car, my vision was not as wonderful as I would have expected from a brand new pair … Read More

What Climbing Pyramids Taught Me About Goals

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Graphic with the words "My Goal" over a pyramid

Reaching goals is challenging business, especially if you are attempting to reach a stretch goal! Whatever stretches you will be outside your comfort zone. Breaking out of that comfortable place is no easy task! A couple of years ago my husband and I had the opportunity to visit Ek Balam – a recently opened Mayan ruin located in Yucatan, Mexico. Previously, when we visited Chichen Itza, a more well-known Mayan ruin in the same region, we could only view El Castillo, the massive step pyramid, from afar. However, at Ek Balam, we were able to make our way to the … Read More

Are Distractions Sabotaging Your Success?

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Running two businesses and having a life that includes the people I love and activities that fuel my soul takes determined focus. Like you, I wrestle with the myriad of interruptions and distractions that divert my focus from what’s really important when it comes to having thriving businesses. My biggest culprit: all methods of communication including e-mail, instant messaging, social media, phone calls, and texts. Communication is vitally important to me – it is one of my top five values, making it also one of my top five temptations! Adding to that temptation is the fact that most communication, in … Read More

4 Steps to Breaking Free from Limiting Beliefs

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Chains

For over a century the elephant has been the face of the circus delighting young and old. Elephants are huge and powerful wild animals. In fact, depending on the type of elephant, they can weigh 200 – 250 pounds at birth and reach between 2.5 tons and 7 tons as adults. That’s hefty! How do you turn an elephant into a circus performer? It is a methodical and sometimes cruel process. As babies, elephants are taught to have respect for their trainers through a system of rewards when they obey, and pain when they don’t. When an elephant is a … Read More

7 Surprising Steps to Overcoming the Fear of Failure

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During a break in a leadership team meeting, the discussion suddenly got interesting. I vividly remember the question being posed: How do you feel about failure? My response was: I do not like to fail. I avoid it at all costs! That response was met with chuckles. Looking back on that memorable moment I see how my view of failure has changed! You see, at that time failure was a little like this to me: The challenge is on. The tight rope is stretched out before me and the balance pole is in hand. A gentle breeze eases the perspiration … Read More

Are You Walking on the Path to Success?

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Path to Success

I don’t know about you, but I often contemplate how to be more successful. What little tweaks, adjustments, or new ways of doing things will increase my visibility, bring more clients, up sales, and allow me to do more of what I love. My heart is to help others and to be consistently improving. I want to thrive – and be successful. As these thoughts swirl in my head, I see what thousands of other motivated people are doing to chase similar goals compliments of Facebook, Twitter, and all the other social media avenues. The temptation is to compare myself … Read More

7 Ways to Have Victory in Obstacles

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The blissful fall day was calling me! The temperature was delightfully comfortable, especially in the sun. The leaves in vivid shades of red, orange, and yellow were fluttering in the breeze against the brilliant blue sky. A quiet calm hung in the air; just a few leaves rustling. It seemed like the perfect day to take my laptop outside to write a blog. Anticipating an eventful weekend ahead with family coming into town, I was eager to get it done while savoring the fabulous weather. I dutifully began writing what had been on my heart for days. It was nearly … Read More

Confused by Coaching? 12 Reasons Coaching Could be for You.

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Despite the ever-increasing number of life coaches in the world, most people nod and smile when I tell them I am a Certified Christian Life Coach. They have a vague idea of what a coach does, maybe. To be honest, prior to my training and certification process, my own knowledge was a little fuzzy. I knew I wanted to do something to influence leaders and help them reach their full potential. Coaching seemed like a useful, fascinating, and inspiring way to accomplish that goal. In the various leadership roles I’d held over my 23 plus years in ministry and business, … Read More